Konang Grae for Miss Drag SA 2018

Katiso “Konang Grae”Kgope entered her first Miss Valentine’s  pageant in 2014 in Daveyton and was crowned the 2nd princess. In 2015 she finally became the queen
of love and won the title of Miss Valentine’s Daveyton. Two years later
she tried her shot at the crown for Miss Daveyton LGBTI and won the title of 1st runner up for 2016 and 2017.

Over the years Konang has worked with one of the big names in the LGBTI
community. An internationally acclaimed photographer ,and visual
activist, Zanele Muholi. Konang is a participant of projects including Brave
Beauties, which is a photo series featuring Transwomen in South Africa. Participants share their stories with the world with the aim of further educating people about
Transwomen in South Africa. The project has been exhibited in different countries and Konang was part of the exhibitions in August 2017 at Stevenson Art Gallery in Cape Town and Durban Art Gallery in December 2017.

The 23-year-old from Daveyton was selected to be a finalist for the prestigious pageant for Transgender and Drag queens called Miss Drag South Africa. Battle of beauty and, not just any typical beauty pageant, but a pageant that focuses more on what a woman in the LGBTI community can do for her community.

its not only about the beauty but more about being a beauty that serves a great purpose in the good and benefit for their community. Konang was asked to do a project called Drag with a purpose which is a project that involves doing something that will benefit your community. She has decided to think outside the box and thought of an
unusual way of doing so. She decided to create posters of the
different individual sexual orientations and give brief explanations of
what each of the LGBTI abbreviations stand for and has decided to put up her
posters around her community of Daveyton. The beauty queen felt it best that
having those posters all around, is a good way of educating people of
Daveyton about the LGBTI community and avoiding stereotypes.
Konang will fight for the crown for Miss Drag South Africa 2018 this
weekend, on the 29th of September

in the Port Elizabeth Opera House. You can
show your support by purchasing your ticket at Computicket for R150 a
#TeamKonang #MissDragSouthAfrica2018 #EvHEmpire

Photos by: Tim Wilson

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2017 Dec. 10: Sisonke Collective performs @Zeitz MoCCA

Text by Christie van Zyl
Photos by Lerato Dumse

This was our buzz on Sunday 10th December 2017. We took over social media and the newly launched Zeitz MoCAA Museum in the Scheryn Collection Arena. The Sisonke Collective founded by visual activist/photographer Professor Sir Muholi, wrapped up 16 Days of Activism with a bang. The Sisonke Collective is a radical crew of young black gender non-conforming and queer creatives who bring together music, dance, storytelling, poetry, performance arts and visual arts.

The show was simple, streamlined and intentional. The context was moulded by ‘Difficult Love’; a documentary which set the tone of the plight of life long mission that Muholi took on when realizing that there is no media that represents them. From there on Professor Sir Muholi equipped themselves with skills and resources to be able to tell their own stories. After which came the understanding that other young black queers need resource, skill and platforms for the very same reasons.
The ever stunning Odidiva, our resident drag queen, gracefully swept into the room with a very direct agenda to school the audience on a very set fabulosity which indeed followed to fill the room.

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Beginning with a performance and speech from Odidiva herself highlighting how the Sisonke Collective took New York by storm at the NYC Performa Biennial of 2017. Wearing black through out the touring performances and exhibitions, we are constantly screaming that we are always in mourning. We are constantly making an awareness of and simultaneously mourning our existence.
We are constantly having to claim our space in history over and over again, to overcome the amnesia of our existence.


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Thandile Mbatsha, Kyle Linde (dancers) and Thando on percussion had us breath taken with their stunning performance piece ‘Touch’. We are all very aware of the politics of touch and the constant belligerence and to some extents resistance towards consent. A concept deemed to be very small but with very large consequences. The constant need to make an awareness around these factors of relating each other can be daunting, exhausting and triggering. The work needs to be done though, otherwise we cannot complain about anything not being done about it if we do nothing in our own capacity.

What it is that we are doing (creating awareness) is what rang true through out the show with the various artists shining light on different issues surrounding 16 Days of Activism. Musician Tracey Rose graced the stage on the wave of ‘Wathinta umfazi, wathinta imbokodo’, yes the proverbial ‘You strike a woman, you strike a rock’. Yes, we have to keep on saying it for our self-affirmation, so that
we are not constantly living in fear!
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Singer Yanela Ncetani Mhlawuli takes to the stage in a regal Vicky Sampson look just to do a war cry stating freedom, ‘Yamemeza intokazi yomuntu bo. Yayihleli ngasemgodini ecaleni kwamaThafa.  Thina sine lungelo lokuthanda umntu lokuthanda nabani kulelizwe esilithandayo kulelizwe lethu elihle. Freedom oh freedom rise for all’. Exclamations of a love that exist within freedom which should be celebrated. Spread more love, dissipate the hate.
A humbling, grounding and unifying ‘Nkosi Sikelela iAfrika’ was sang to wrap up the first event and artists to be hosted at the Zeitz MoCAA institution, alongside the burning of red candles in commemoration of those we have lost to hate crimes . Not the national anthem but the prayer hymn and political statement that we are praying for strength, for blessings, love and support to keep on fighting this good fight. As we work our way into making our queer existence visible in galleries, museums, media, institutions of knowledge and within society. The aim is to also influence the information that is circulating mediums and spaces of knowledge around our existence so that it is our stories told by us, for us.

I gave a final shout out at this show to the parents and family members of the crew that were present in the audience. It was important to acknowledge Odidiva’s parents who are elderly with Diva’s Father being a pastor too. To acknowledge sisters, nieces  and nephews of queer individuals because it shows support, acceptance and acknowledgment. It shows respect for our preferences and being seen as a human regardless of difference. I gave a shout out especially to our mothers that have seen so much surrounding us their children, with a poem titled ‘For the Grievance Ingrained Mothers’; because of what a friend we have in grievance. Whether our mothers are aware of it or not, we can see how much no child goes unnoticed.
So to end 16 Days of Activism, do something about the things that bother you pertaining to injustice otherwise you forfeit your right to complain. Always remember that you are not alone.

#LGBTIQA Visibility


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2018 Jan. 21: Slain Lesbian Killed on New Year’s Day Laid to Rest

Text and photos by  Levinia Pienaar

Noxolo Xakeka, a 23 years old latest victim of hate crime was laid to rest on Saturday 20th January 2018 in Bredasdorp, Western Cape. On the 1st of January many babies were born and other significant incidents happened. The photo of the 1st baby born in the Western Cape appeared the 1st working day newspapers. However, Noxolo (Noxi), was the 1st lesbian to be killed out of homophobic hate crime by a man who wanted her to be with a man and not a woman.  Yet her death, the first one in 2018  didn’t make highlights in the mainstream media.



Members of Freegender and allies chanted protests songs during the funeral service
Noxi, who was the breadwinner at home and fend for her Mother, little sister and her  son. She was the “Dr. Phil” among her friends in Strand, where she stayed and worked till her death. The funeral could only take place 20 days after her brutal murder because friends and organizations assisted her mother to give her a respectful funeral. Emotions arose as Freegender members, friends and Noxi’s partner expressed their emotions. (Freegender is a black lesbian organization based in Khayelitsha).
Her son looked so “confused” in a way, as many people just wanted to hug him, care for him, etc. I could not imagine what he was going through.  Funeka Soldaat, an activist and founding member of Freegender, thanked the Pastor, elderly in church and congregants  for accepting LGTB people in the church and for the manner in which they conducted the service. Funeka mentioned that as a lesbian or gay person you fear even the Church because of homophobia.


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After the Service, Noxi’s partner, her close friends and some Freegender members went to the kitchen to prepare something to eat (with money they received from donors) and they all just broke down. Tears were rolling down their faces afterwards when the food was served. With every plate and container which went out of the kitchen, a lot of tears and pain and despair went with it. During that time, her little boy went from person to person to “comfort” them.  They were the ones supposed to comfort him.  He was not really aware of his loss. When her partner, picked him up, it was then when my eyes got filled with tears. Deep in my heart I prayed that her mother, family and friends would allow her access to the boy. In heterosexual relationships it remains a “norm’ that a child gets reared by the remaining partner. In same sex relationships things like that are not perceived as the “norm”.

Hate crimes on LGBTI persons hardly get recorded. Noxi was the 1st lesbian to be killed in 2018 in South Africa because of homophobia.  No “prominent” politicians, ministers, Deputy Ministers, etc. attended the funeral.

2018 Jan. 20 Photos of Noxolo displayed


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2018 Jan. 15: Pink Money in Switzerland

Text by Siba Nkumbi
Photos by Suzy Bernstein

PINK MONEY, a showcase that describes the purchasing power of the LGBT+ community particulariy that tackles tourism as to who spends this money, who gets it and at what price!


2018 Jan. 15 Pink Money ft Anelisa Stuurman


The show beautifully displayed the experiences of the artists in Europe in pursuit of this Pink Money, I got to be part of the people witnessing the show as Annalyzer, one of the artists shared her experience of Europe based on myself being thrown down the stairs by an airbnb worker, seeing and witnessing what that ordeal was like to her with my naked eye sparked a sense of healing which was beautifully delivered in the form of great artwork.


2018 Jan. 15 Anelisa Stuurman _ Pink Money _ Switzerland

The introduction of the show was perfectly planned from the beautiful Miz Buttons aka Mbali Mdluli, one of the artists eased people into the  performance with  beautiful sounds to Annalyzer as uMalume as well as Anje Shupp plus Kieron Jina sealing the beautiful collaboration with the naked truth of their stories, beautiful dance moves and  attention grabbing energy from all artists. I personally loved the aspect of the show being created so that the artists interacted with the crowd so we could feel as part of the show as much as we came to watch the show. Pink Money is a force to be reckoned with! It both challenged the status quo as to who deserves what based on who they are, sexual preference and how they dress. We shared a moment of hug towards the end of the show with Annalyzer considering how far we have both come since Holland, we did alright.  Pink Money has literally smashed the stigma into pieces and in Europe.

What I noticed was the amount of support they got to a point that tickets were sold out, I had a friend who had to go back home because the show was already full which brings me to my next point of being a South African and writing  this for South Africans. The only way our art is going to grown is by starting to support each other in numbers, do what you are not used to doing. If  you are used to free tickets at least surprise yourself and buy 1 ticket it makes a lot of difference as we as artists put our blood, sweat and tears into our own art more support can go a long way and yes I do appreciate the support that we already experience and  share.  Aluta continua.
As I got back home on a Wednesday, Luyolo Thomas from the South African Embassy based in Switzerland who is also a good friend of  mine could not keep his mouth shut after witnessing the show for himself, he then told me “Those guys are good” so I asked which guys and he replied Pink Money!
An interesting way of summing up her part in Pink Money,  is a quote from Annalyzer that got most men saying something about it and which I relate to a lot.
“These boys envy me because I eat what they eat and I eat it better” – Annalyzer


2018 Jan. 14 Annalyzer + Siba Nkumbi _ Switzerland

Annalyzer and Siba, a moment of pride after the show

However it is never about such statements but about respecting and honouring who people are without expecting them to act or be a certain way because you see their bodily features. I do encourage anyone who wants to learn more about LGBTI+ in a beautiful captivating delivery to see Pink Money as it is a must see wherever you are. The time is now to be radical about who we are and become more and more visible than gay prides and parades, we take back what  they took from us which is mostly dignity by being unapologetically visible.

Lastly I said talking to a friend a few days ago “ I would love to see the show in churches and schools more, that is where our children are taught about life and being human and the very first places for us to be radical and raise awareness with the help of the parents of course, no longer can these issues affecting the LGBTI+ community be swept under the carpet” it begins with you. A special thank you to the Pink Money artists for such an amazing and yet educating show. Anje Schupp, Kieron JINA, Mbali Mdluli and Annalyzer you did us proud.


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2017 Dec. 15: Ricki & Tony’s best wedding

Team TT Weds

by: Lerato Dumse

Days after making her/story in her birth country Botswana, Tshepo Ricki Kgositau walked down the aisle on Friday, December 15, 2017 in Cape Town, South Africa.
Ricki reached a new life milestone by marrying the man of her dreams.

On Tuesday, December 12, 2017, Botswana High Court ordered the state to legally recognise Ricki’s gender identity. Justice Leatile Dambe told the national registrar in Gaborone to change Ricki’s gender from male to female in the national registrar, and “issue her with a new identity card identifying her as a female”.

The couple first met on a Sunday afternoon on the 10th of August 2014. The groom Tony Kanza believes he was destined to meet Ricki because they stayed in the same street in Cape Town and waited for their public transport near each other’s homes.



Ricki arrived at the wedding venue driven in a maroon vintage 1936 Chevrolet sedan, while the sun prepared to set in Hout Bay and the wind blew gently (for Cape Town standards). The bride climbed out of the car ready to exchange wedding vows with her Congolese born partner. Guests ululated as Ricki exited the car and emerged clutching her bouquet in one hand and her brother in another. She looked beautiful in her figure hugging long dress and platted dreadlocks partly visible through her veil.  Tony stood tall and looked dapper in his blue suit, patiently waiting for his bride. The blue sky provided the perfect cover for this garden wedding, surrounded by nature in the form of mountains and water. After the “I Dos” it was time for the vows. Ricki pledged to always love Tony saying, “You accepted me with all that I came with and have never for a moment given me the impression that you ever questioned your decision to be with me”.

In their wedding website Tony and Ricki shared how their relationship includes coincidences. “August is the anniversary of when we met and started dating and his birth month too, while October is the anniversary of our engagement and it is my birth month. December 2016 happens to be the month I had my gender affirming surgery and is the future anniversary of our civil marriage.

Limited to a maximum of one hundred and twenty guests, the wedding was intimate with guests handpicked. Among the guest list was Kgositau’s mother, brothers, relatives, activists, colleagues and friends.  Lawyer Lesego Nchunga, who represented Kgositau during the High Court victory, was present to witness the special event.

The couple chose close friends to be their bridesmaids and groomsmen. Lomie Serole was the Best Lady. Her and Ricki met in tertiary and lived together for a while. This was not the first milestone experienced by Lomie. She accompanied Ricky to Thailand for her gender affirming surgery.

While Maid of Honour Tumisang Letamo and Ricki’s friendship is cemented by their love for God and understanding that there is a God out there that hears the cries and prayers of its people.

The Man Of Honour was Justin Barume, who is Tony’s homeboy from DRC and now part of his family in Cape Town. “Justin is one of the greatest supporters to Tony & Ricki and even went to Botswana to represent the Kanza family in the magadi negotiations for Ricki.

The bride and her team started their day with final rehearsals at the venue on the morning of the wedding. They then headed back to their wedding accommodation in Green Point to get ready for the main event. The groom with the pastor and groomsmen dressed up in the couple’s home, surrounded by pictures of the bride and groom and messages of love displayed in their home.

Reverend Mampane officiated the wedding ceremony and offered the closing prayer following the reception. Speaking in his fast paced voice, Reverend Mampane offered the newlyweds some marital advice, urging them to “have fun with each other” much to the guest’s delight.

With the ceremony wrapped up, the wedding team rushed off with Inkanyiso crew to have their wedding photographs captured. Family and friends enjoyed starters and drinks. Upon returning to the wedding venue it was time to have dinner and speeches.

Before ending the night the dance floor was set alive by the wedding team presenting their choreographed pieces. The lovebirds also got a chance to have their first dance as a couple before they threw the bouquet and gutter to all the singletons in the house.

#TeamTT #TransIsBeautiful #TswanaDiamondPower #LoveLivesHere #GenderAffirmingFamilies #HappyPowerfulYear #20CementTheTeam #TransFemLeadership #HerStory


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2017 Oct. 26: South African Fashion Week

by Lesego Masilela

Being in a space where I have people with a clear understanding of what I love is one of the best experiences I can never trade for anything. On October 24 – 25, 2017 I attended the South African Fashion Week (SAFW) and compiled this reflective report.

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Beauty and style on fashion ramp… Photos by Lerato Dumse


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Rich Mnisi stands out for me, there’s something so rich and fresh about his style, it’s not intricate but intriguing in such a way that one can’t ignore the beauty of his work.

Woolworths also impressed me for using thickleeyonce as one of their models. They showed that they cater for every body type; they understand that not all women are a size zero.

This day made me believe in possibilities of becoming one of the best designers in the world. It was nice meeting people and seeing a lot of known people, I was going crazy on the inside and I don’t want to lie I would have loved taking pictures with one of them but then I had to stay in my lane.

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Style and fashion rule, that’s my opinion maybe it’s because I always look at what people wear.
Day two reminded me of why I love fashion, I was fascinated by the greatness of Mantsho and Rubicon

The smartest thing Rubicon did was using one of the most admired woman in our country Basetsana Kumalo, she was just a goddess and nailed it. I found myself smiling for no reason, that’s how much she gave life to the room

Being in SAFW made me realise that anything is possible and you can be where you believe you need to be. I swear after watching the shows I was so pumped to create more stuff and stop believing that I’m not good enough and that people wouldn’t love what I make.

Uniqueness is one thing that separates designers from designers. I truly enjoyed being there and meeting new people.

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2017 Sept. 28: NIKE Honours Young South African with exclusive edition BHM Sneakers


2017 Oct. 2 Bathini Dambuza BHM Sneakers _ Parktown _2762

Bathini Dambuza, a spiritual activist and a member of VMCI with a gift of sneakers from Muholi.



Black History Month is commemorated every February in the United States of America, celebrating the achievements of black Americans.

Since 2005, it is also the month Nike unveils its distinct designs of Black History Month (BHM) products, leading with the iconic Air Force 1, paying homage to the achievements of black heritage, in sport and beyond, worldwide.

Nike recognizes the significance of BHM with not only a product collection, but a larger recognition of the power of sports to impact society.  It is an appreciation of a movement created by the Pan-African communities to fuel a purpose of equality.

To honour the global black history movement, and as part of this year’s 35th anniversary of the iconic Air Force 1, Nike produced a collection of bespoke BHM Air Force 1’s.

South Africa, at the heart of the African diaspora, is the first of three countries honouring individuals who are the future force, the chosen ones.

They are pioneers of their trade. Trendsetters and tastemakers who are charging ahead and blazing new paths while taking the rest of us into the future, who proudly wear their country’s heart on their sleeve, and are proudly African.

This inspired Nike designers to produce a signature sneaker fusing the country, the continent, and Pan-Africanism into an exclusive edition of BHM Air Force 1’s.

A graphic marblized print of South Africa’s national flag rests on the inner and outer of the all-black nubuck upper which rests upon a crisp white sole.  A gold hang-tag of the African continent motif with BHM emblazoned across it and the lace lock made up of tri-colours red, black and green inspired by the Pan-African flag also known as the Black Liberation Flag complete the sneaker. The socklier has the ‘equality’ message across it.

35 South African honorees were hosted at a special unveiling of the BHM Air Force 1 on Wednesday night at Lilies Leaf in Rivonia – the award-winning heritage site and once the nerve centre of the anti-apartheid movement.  It was a befitting backdrop to an intimate dinner served by Junior Chef of the Year, Terror Lekopa, during a month dedicated to appreciating the country’s diverse cultural heritage, beliefs and traditions.


South Africa’s Force 35 include: (alphabetical by name)

Amanda Dlamini – Professional Footballer, Olympian, Football Analyst

Anele Mdoda – Radio and Television Personality, Author, Occasional Comedienne

Anees Petersen – Fashion Designer, Entrepreneur

Black Coffee – International Award Winning DJ, Producer

Caster Semenya – Professional Athlete, Olympian, World Champion

DJ Fresh – Multi-talented DJ, Music and Television Producer

Doowap – Fashion Guru, Drum and Bass Queen

Greg Maloka – Musical Maestro, Radio Genius

Itumeleng Khune – Professional Footballer, South Africa’s leading Goalkeeper

Jamal Nxedlana – Creative Director, Photographer, Designer

Lady Skollie – Visual Artist, Activist

Laduma MaXhosa – Knitwear Design Extraordinaire

Lazi Mathebula – Illustrator, Designer, Sneaker Customizer

Lebogang Rasethaba – One of the Younger Film Directors

Luvo Mayonga – Professional Long Jumper, Olympian, World Champion

Mandla Sibeko – Chairman, Co-Founder of the Joburg Art Fair

Manthe Ribane – Graphic Designer, Dancer and Performer

Maria McCloy – Urban Culture Lover, Publicist, Journalist, Fashion Designer

Mary Sibande – Sculptor, Photographer, Visual Artist

Milkshake – Multicultural DJ and Producer

Mkay Frash – Sneaker Head, Undisputed King of Camo and Streetwear

Riky Rick – Rapper and Producer

Ruli Diseko – Relentless Entrepreneur

Scoop Makhathini – Television and Radio Presenter, Writer

Sho Madjozi – Rapper, Poet

Tarryn Alberts – Choreographer, Dancer

Tebogo Mohlatsi – Renowned Film Director, Revolutionised SA Television

Terror Lekopa – Junior Chef of the Year.

Thandiswa Mazwai – One of the most influential musicians in SA

Thando Moleketi – Food Writer, Traveler

Trevor Stuurman – Photographer, Creative Director

Tusa Mamba – Sneaker and Streetwear Trendsetter

Wandile Zondo – Co-founder of Thesis Lifestyle

YoMzansi – Sneaker Culture Bloggers

Zaid Osman – Sneaker Exchange Founder, Sneaker Head

Zanele Muholi – Visual Activist, Photographer.




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