Category Archives: Love

2013 Dec. 9: Zozo’s alleged murderer to appear in court for the second time

Posted on December 9, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Lesego Tlhwale As the 16 days of activism against gender-based violence draws to an end, the plight of Lesbian, Gay, bisexual, Transgender and Intersex (LGBTI) people in South Africa continues and the fight to eradicate hate crimes carries on … Continue reading →

Posted in Activism, Activists Act, Allies, Archived memories, Crimes, Family, Family support, Identity, Ihawu, Ihawu members, Katlehong, Knowledge, Love, Women's struggles, Women; Voices; Writings; Education; Traditions; Struggles; Cultures | Tagged | 3 Comments

2013 Nov. 10: I can never forget

Posted on November 27, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Maureen Velile Majola   That night you made me stay up so you can pour out your heart When you reminded me of all my mistakes When the age gap played it significant role again The reminder The constant … Continue reading →

Posted in Active Black Lesbian Artists in South Africa (ABASA), Activism, Anger, Art Activism in South Africa, Art Edutainment, Art Is A Human Right, As we are, Beauty, Before You, Bitch, Insults, Life, Life Stories, Love, Love is a human right, Memory, Power of the Arts, Power of the Voice, Queer poetics, Questioning, Relationships, Silence, South Africa, Speaking for ourselves, Textualizing Our Own Lives, Undermined, We Are You, We Care, Women who have sex with Women, Women's power, Women; Voices; Writings; Education; Traditions; Struggles; Cultures, Writing is a Right, Youth voices | Tagged | 1 Comment

2013 Nov. 9: Ayanda & Nhlanhla’s wedding

Posted on November 18, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

  … Seven (7) days later Photos by Lebo Ntladi   It was in 2011 during their vacation in Cape Town when Nhlanhla Moremi made a promised to marry Ayanda Magoloza in 2 years. 2013 came and Moremi finished paying … Continue reading →

Posted in Female Photographers, From Thokoza to Vosloorus, Gender naming, Gratitude, Homosexuality, Hope, Human rights, I was (T)here, Identity, Ihawu, Ihawu members, Kisses, Know Your SA Queer History, Lesbian Love Is Possible in South Africa, Lesbian Youth, LGBT rights activist, Life Stories, Love, Media works, Our lives in the picture, Pastor Moema, Photo album, Photo Expressions, Photography, Politics of representation, Power of the Arts, Power of the Voice, Prayer, Professional black lesbians in South Africa, Queer God fearing community, Queer poetics, Queer visibility, Queer Youth, Relationships, South African Black Female Photographers, Textualizing Our Own Lives, Townships, Traditions & Customs, Uncategorized, Visual Arts, Visual history is a Right not a luxury, Visual Language, Visual Power, Visualizing public spaces, We Are You, We Care, We Love Photography, We Still Can with/out Resources, We were (t)here, Womanhood, Women's power, Writing is a Right, Zulu is a South African language | Tagged | 19 Comments

2013 Oct. 24: Jack Daniel’s

Posted on October 24, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

  by S’bu Kheswa Yehla ngomgogodlo! Triple distilled and twice as smooth!  It has been very long since I enjoyed my favourite drink. When one is on some weight-watching tip one misses out on goodies but once in a while … Continue reading →

Posted in Activism, Activists, Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, Creating awareness, Education, Emotional support, Empowerment, Gender expression, heteronormativity, homonormativity, Hope, Intellectualism, Love, Power of the Voice, Reflection, Seeking help, Straights, Textualizing Our Own Lives, Transgender visibility, Transgender Voices, Transgenderism in Africa, We Care, Writing is a Right | Tagged | 14 Comments

2013 Oct. 22: I thought university was for the rich

Posted on October 22, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

Palesa profiled by Kopano Palesa Mkhwebane is a beauty with a brain. The aspiring entrepreneur tells me of her future plans as we chit chat.  She ponders and says “I didn’t know I was going to go to university, as … Continue reading →

Posted in Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, Archiving Queer Her/Histories in SA, As we are, Beauty, Before You, Black & White, Black Queer & Gifted, Blackness, Brains, Crea(c)tive senses, Creating awareness, Education, Empowerment, Experience, Exposure, Expression, Friendships, Homosexuality, Housing, Knowledge, Life, Love, Our lives in the picture, Photography, Portrait, Power of the Voice, RDP, Relationships, Visual history is a Right not a luxury, Visual Power, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Women's power, Writing is a Right, Youth voices | Tagged | 17 Comments

2013 Oct. 18: Transition is in your hands

Posted on October 18, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Sbu Kheswa This piece is inspired by Njabulo Masuku’s article: Frustrations of a transgender man. Boy, I can really feel your frustration. The challenge is that there are many other transgender people in Njabulo’s shoes. In fact, the wide gap … Continue reading →

Posted in Evidence, Experience, Exposure, Expression, Family, Finances, Friendships, Gender naming, Human rights, Interpretation, Invisibility, Know Your SA Queer History, Knowledge, Lack of Resources, Lessons learnt, Life, Love | Tagged | 4 Comments

2013 Oct. 16: I am a beautiful young dyke, a woman lover

Posted on October 16, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

Oyama Mbopa is a freelance artist who specialises in acting, dancing, singing as well as stunt performance.  She was born in the Eastern Cape in November of 1981 and grew up with her mother and three siblings. She is a … Continue reading →

Posted in 1981 -, Activism, Activists, African Queer Beauty, Art Edutainment, Art Is A Human Right, Art is Queer, Arts, Arts & Sports, Beauty, Before You, Being Scene, Black Lesbian Graduate, Blackness, Body, Collaborations, Connections, Dancing, Dyke, Experience, Exposure, Expression, Female Photographers, Freelance artist, Human rights, Life, Love, Photography, Readings, ReClaim Your Activism, Recognition, Relationships, She, Stunt performance, Together we can, Visual Power, We Are You, Youth voices | Tagged | 6 Comments

2013 Oct. 15: She is my weakness

Posted on October 15, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Charmain Carrol When I found out I was pregnant I had two feelings at the same time. I smiled because I was somehow happy while tears were running down my face because I was afraid. I feared the disappointment. … Continue reading →

Posted in Anger, Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, Before You, Betrayal, Commitment, Creating awareness, Difficult Love, Education, Homosexuality, Hope, Human rights, Hurt, Knowledge, Life, Love, Maternal love, Power of the Voice, Public spaces, Relationships, School, Silence, South Africa, Speaking for ourselves, We Are You, We Care, Women's power | Tagged | 13 Comments

2013 Oct. 12: I just feel she deserves much better

Posted on October 13, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

  Dee’s story An avid soccer player, Debora Dlamini prefers to be called Dee, a name she got while actively playing soccer. She describes herself as “sweet, understanding, calm and focused” but is also an open book and a straight … Continue reading →

Posted in 1989 -, Acceptance, Activism, Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, As we are, Blackness, Community, Community Mobilizing, Creating awareness, Debora Dlamini, Empowerment, Expression, Faces & Phases portraits, Family, Former soccer player, Gauteng, Homosexuality, Lack of Resources, Life, Love, Organizations, Our lives in the picture, Power of the Voice, Profile, Relationships, Self acceptance, Survivor, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources | Tagged | 10 Comments

2013 Oct. 2: ‘I am a normal transgender woman’

Posted on October 3, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Christina Mavuma My name is Christina Moemedi Gugulethu Mavuma. I am from rural Eastern Cape ‘eMfondweni, Transkei. My parents moved to Botswana and decided to live here with us. I have a younger and older sister as well as … Continue reading →

Posted in Evidence, Exposure, Expression, History, Human rights, Life, Love, Photography, Portrait, Power of the Arts, Power of the Voice, ReClaim Your Activism, Recognition, Records and histories, Reflection, Relationships, Textualizing Our Own Lives, Together we can, Transgender visibility, Transgender Voices, Transgenderism in Africa, Visualizing public spaces, We Are You, We Care, Women's power, Writing is a Right | Tagged | 26 Comments