Category Archives: Open relationships

2013 Sept. 6: Your cheating ways is your business not mine

Posted on September 12, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Kopano Sibeko Sneaking in and out, private calls, unnecessary lies and scents of foreign colognes and fragrances all seem to be an impeccable way to assume that your partner is having an affair.  So a friend of mine has … Continue reading →

Posted in Characters, Cheating, Conflicts, Evidence, Exposure, Friendships, Homosexuality, Human rights, Hurt, Inconsiderate, Lesbian Love Is Possible in South Africa, Open relationships, Opinion, Power of the Voice, We Are You | Tagged | 1 Comment

2013 July 15: The virus has become a silent relative

Posted on July 15, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Kopano Sibeko “It’s amazing how the death of someone can also be a blessing” shares Thembela ‘Terra’ Dick. She walks me on a tale of how her sister, Thembi Ngubane’s memorial service was the day her life really started. … Continue reading →

Posted in Connections, Crea(c)tive senses, Creating awareness, Expression, Family, HiV/AIDS in South Africa, Open relationships, Paris, Portrait, Power of the Voice, Professional black lesbians in South Africa, ReClaim Your Activism, South Africa, Visual history is a Right not a luxury, Visualizing public spaces, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Women who have sex with Women, Writing is a Right, Zanele Muholi | Tagged , , , , , | 18 Comments

2013 June 28: So What Is This?

Posted on June 29, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Charmain Carrol When you love someone, but the best option is to stay away… I seem to think of you every second minute of every hour of the day. I keep seeing flashes of you the morning after it … Continue reading →

Posted in Archived memories, Art Solidarity, As we are, Beauty, Before You, Black Lesbians, Charmain Carrol, Community, Complicated Lesbian Relationships, Crea(c)tive senses, Creative Writing, Evidence, Faith, Family, Homosexuality, Johannesburg, Lady tactics, Life Stories, Love, Open relationships, Our lives in the picture, Power of the Voice, South Africa, Women; Voices; Writings; Education; Traditions; Struggles; Cultures, Writing is a Right | Tagged , | 7 Comments