Tag Archives: Family

2015 Aug. 19: Time really flies when you are having fun

Posted on August 27, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

by Mlu Msomi & Sekara Mafisa We had big plans for our golden anniversary this year. But time just flew, before we knew it the day had arrived. We had a beautiful garden winter sunset wedding at the Val Verde … Continue reading →

Posted in 1st Year anniversary, Beautiful faces, Before US, Before You, Being, Being conscientized, Being heard, being loved, being recognized, Black Gay Wedding, Celebration, Church, Committed, Confidence, Emotional support, Empowerment, Golden year, Inkanyiso media, Lifetime, Mlu Msomi & Sekara Mafisa, My Name Is Rose, Pastor John Klooper, Photography, Rings, together, Wedding, Zoo lake | Tagged Anniversary messages, Cape Town, Civil Union Act (2006), community, Experience, Expression, Family, Feelings, friends, Homosexuality, human rights, Life, Living..., Love, Relationships, Respect, Visual history, Voices, We love photography, Words, Writing is a Right | Leave a comment

2015 Aug. 16: Civics, Unions and Churches in a stand-off on LGBTI rights

Posted on August 17, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

by Gugu “Donsy Kunene” Madonsela The 11th Southern Africa Civil Society Forum almost ended in a stand-off on Friday, 14 August. The stalemate occured when organising partners differed on the inclusion of a recommendation on, ‘sexual orientation’ in the final communique. … Continue reading →

Posted in Accountability, Africa, Another Approach Is Possible, Apex Alliance Partner, Archived memories, Article, by Gugu “Donsy Kunene” Madonsela, Churches, Civics, Creating awareness, Debate, Delegates, Derogative, Disagreement, Discrimination, Expression, Forum, Heads of State, Human rights, Leaders, LGBTI community, LGBTI issues, Members, Power of the Voice, Resolution, SADC, Sexual orientation, South Africa, Southern Africa, Southern African Development Community, Support, Unions, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Writing is a Right | Tagged Act, Action, activism, Activists, Articles, Black lesbians, Collaborations, Communique, Consensus, Disagreement, Divorce, Education, Exclusion, Experience, Family, Feelings, Friendships, Gender issues, General Secretary Boichoko Dithlake, Homosexuality, Human beings, Isabella Matambanadzo, Labour, Life, Negotiation, Opportunity, Persecution, Recognition, Respected, SADC-CNGO, SATUCC, Stigma, Trade unions, Words, Workers as family members | 1 Comment

2015 Aug. 8: Celebrated my late sister’s life

Posted on August 17, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

by Boitumelo ‘Tumi’ Nkopane At 16:45pm on the 4th of June 2015 I met with Ayanda “Kiss” Masina at Tsakane taxi rank. We were meeting as participants of Faces and Phases/Yithi Laba Intergenerational Conference, held at Constitution Hill (Con Hill) from the 5 … Continue reading →

Posted in Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, Creating awareness, Expression, History, Power of the Voice, South Africa, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Writing is a Right | Tagged 2015 Yithi Laba conference, Act, Action, Activists, Articles, artists, Black lesbians, Boitumelo 'Tumi' Nkopane, Celebrated my late sister’s life, Challenges and experiences, Collaborations, community, Con Hill, Education, Experience, Expression, Faces and Phases participants, Family, Fashion, Feelings, Friendships, Gauteng, Guest house, Homosexuality, human rights, Introductions, Johannesburg, Meals, Relationships, Respect, Sexuality, Sharing information, Sister, Special moments, Various townships, Visual activism, Voices, We love photography | 2 Comments

2015 Aug. 13: Cheated out of a goodbye

Posted on August 14, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

by Bathini Dambuza Losing a mother has never been an easy thing for someone to go through. You feel the pain and the heartache almost everyday; especially when things aren’t going the way you want them to. I … Continue reading →

Posted in Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, Bathini Dambuza, Community, Creating awareness, Feelings, Lost, Mourning, Power of the Voice, South Africa, Vain, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Writing is a Right | Tagged Action, Archived photo, Articles, Bathini Dambuza, community, Condolences, Constitution Hill, Death that claim my mother, Education, Experience, Expression, Family, FEW, Forum for the Empowerment of Women, Forum for the Empowerment of Women (FEW), Friendships, Furious, God, HIV, HIV positive, Home, Human, Human beings, human rights, Human Rights workshop, Life experience, Life story, Love, Loving daughter, Question, Reason, Relationships, Respect, Sexuality, Time, Tradition, Visual history, Voices, Women, Words, Writing is a Right | 8 Comments

2015 Aug. 10: Fulfilling a wish

Posted on August 11, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

Text by Lerato Dumse Photos by Muholi Zanele I think black South Africans (maybe even other races) might agree with me that watching African American church services on TV or in movies makes one wish to attend. Their pastor’s sermons … Continue reading →

Posted in Bethany Baptist Church, by Lerato Dumse, Carrie Mae Weems, Church, Experience, Fulfilling a wish, God, New York, Syracuse | Tagged 3 generations of women in the picture, Act, Action, activism, Another approach is possible, Art, Art Activism, Articles, Artist-in-Residency, artists, beauty, Being acknowledged, Being involved, Birthdays and Anniversaries, Black lesbians, Celebration, Church announcements, Collaborations, community, East and South side, Education, Experience, Expression, Family, Feelings, Flea market, Friendships, From Johannesburg to Syracuse, God, History, Homosexuality, Human beings, Inkanyiso media, Light Work AIR, Listening, Living..., Love, Memories, Networking, New York upstate, Participation, Proactive, Program, Race, Racial divide, Respect, Sexuality, South Africa, Spirit, Syracuse, Thoughts, Time, Timing, USA, Visual activism, Voices, We love photography, Westside, Words, Writing is a Right | 1 Comment

2015 Aug. 10: A true definition of reality

Posted on August 10, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

by Siba Nkumbi Chubby Vogue Divas, using confidence as their weapon of mass destruction! 59 Years later after the march of women to the union buildings, chubby vogue divas were marching in style and class to eliminate discrimination against plus … Continue reading →

Posted in Archived memories, Confidence, Constitution Hill, Creating awareness, Expression, Lindeka Qampi, Power of the Voice, Questioning, South Africa, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources | Tagged Act, Action, Amazing, Another approach is possible, Audience, Authored by Siba Nkumbi, Beautiful, Black Female Photographers in SA, Black Lesbian professionals, Captioned, Celebrating Women's month, Change, Charmain Carrol, Chubby, Chubby Vogue Divas, Complishment, Con Hill, Divas, exhibition, Experience, Family, Fashion, Fatty, Fit, friends, Friendships, Full figured women, Full-figured, Human beings, Inkanyiso media, Is'dudla, Johannesburg, Life, Love, Loving, Mainstream space, Mood, Perception, Personality, Photography, Pictures, Pride, Relationships, Shape, Space, Spectators, Statement, Support, Visual history, Visual project, Voices, We love photography, Words, Writing is a Right | 1 Comment

2015 Aug. 9: Balancing culture and activism

Posted on August 9, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

by Jacqui Mseleku-Ngwane In my line of work I have seen so much abuse and injustice that happens in the name of culture. I am a dynamic Zulu woman, raised in a cosmopolitan household so different from normal Zulu households. … Continue reading →

Posted in Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, Creating awareness, Power of the Voice, We Are You | Tagged Abuse, activism, Activist, Activists, advocacy, Advocate for gender rights, Balancing culture and activism, Being dominated, Black Lesbian professionals, Career, Childhood, Children, church, Committed, Confession, Cultural practices, Culture, Education, Emancipation, Emotional struggle, Expression, Family, Feelings, Free, Freedom start with You, frustration, Gender Based Violence, Gender stereotypes, HIV and Gender, Honesty, Human beings, human rights, In her own words, Interfaith organisations, Intervention, Jacqui Mseleku, Jacqui Mseleku-Ngwane, Lessons Learnt, LGBTI sensitization workshops, Life, Life story, Love, Marriage, Married early, Masculinity vs Femininity, Member of VMCI - Idwala, Mother, Oppressed, Portfolio, Reading empowers, Reflection, Relationships, Respect, Rural wife, Security and safety, Serve, Sexuality, Social worker, Socialization, Sons, South Africa, Strategies, Talented young woman, Time, Time heals, Umlazi township, Voice, Witness, Women's issues, Words, Work, Writing our own | 2 Comments

2015 Aug. 2: Untitled

Posted on August 6, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

I bring nothing but shame to the family Dear parents, those are your words Community, society and religion clouds your judgment towards me, why do they matter?. Look beyond shame and regret then you’ll see I am a loving, caring … Continue reading →

Posted in Being, Being conscientized, Being heard, being loved, being recognized, being respected., Black Lesbian, Caring, Change, Creating awareness, Exploration, Exposure, Expression, Facing abuse and violation, Facing You, Facts, Faith, Gifted, Give, Hurt, Injustices, Matters, Molestation, On my own, Punishment, Reading, Rejection, Resentment, Sexuality, Society, Solution, Terrified, Texts, Textualizing Our Own Lives, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Young talent | Tagged Acceptance, Act, Action, Another approach is possible, Articles, beauty, Black Lesbian, Blood and flesh, community, curse, Experience, Family, Feelings, Friendships, Homosexuality, Human beings, human rights, Inkanyiso media, Life, Mpumalanga, Voices, Words, Writing is a Right | Leave a comment

2015 July 15: Doing the best for my daughter

Posted on August 5, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

I am Thembisa Cordelia Mhlawuli known as Lovey. I was born in Cape Town in Somerset Hospital. My parents are Nomthandazo Patricia known as ‘Pat’ and Welile Christopher Mhlawuli. I am the last-born, my sister’s name is Carol and brother’s is Ezmond. I stayed … Continue reading →

Posted in Another Approach Is Possible, Parents, We are beautiful, We are capable, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Women who have sex with Women, Women who love women, Women's power, Women's struggles, Women; Voices; Writings; Education; Traditions; Struggles; Cultures, Worked for us, Writing matters, Writing our own, Xhosa is a South African language, Young female writer | Tagged Accepted, Admiration, Black Lesbian mother, Cape Town, Daughter, Decision, Degrading, Education, Experience, Expression, Family, Fashion, FreeGender, friends, Hate crime survivor, Human being, Isitabane is a derogatory term, Khayelitsha, Late bloomer, LGBTI, Liberated, Life, Life story, Love, North Link College, Out of the Closet, Peace, Relationship, Safety, sense, Sex, Sexuality, Style, Survived, Thembisa Mhlawuli, Work, Writing is a Right | 6 Comments

2015 July 31: Lihle Sokhela’s killer shows no remorse

Posted on August 1, 2015 by inkanyiso2009

Text and photos by Lerato Dumse It was a bittersweet moment when Thabo Molefe (47) was sentenced to a concurrent 22 years for murder and 12 years for raping Lihle Sokhela (28). Sokhela was a black lesbian from Daveyton. There … Continue reading →

Posted in Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, Creating awareness, Expression, Power of the Voice, South Africa, We Are You, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Writing is a Right | Tagged 2014 lesbian murder, 22 year sentence, Articles, Author, beauty, Black lesbian victim of hate crime, Black lesbians, Brutally murdered, Commission for Gender Equality, Consensual, Conviction, Court appearance, Daveyton, Education, Expression, Eye witness, Family, Feelings, Friendships, Guilty verdict, Homosexuality, Human beings, human rights, Idea, Inkanyiso media, Judge, Judgement, Killing, Legal, Lerato Dumse, Lihle Sokhela, Lihle Sokhela’s killer shows no remorse, modus operandi, Murder, Murder case, Photography, post-mortem results, Pretoria, Rape, Relationships, Reporting from court, Respect, Responsibility, Sentence, Sex, Sexuality, Testimonies, Trial, Violated, Visual activism, Voices, We love photography, Weeklong trial, Women’s Ecumenical Conference, Words, Writing is a Right | 7 Comments

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Tag Archives: Family

2015 Aug. 19: Time really flies when you are having fun

2015 Aug. 16: Civics, Unions and Churches in a stand-off on LGBTI rights

2015 Aug. 13: Cheated out of a goodbye

2015 Aug. 10: Fulfilling a wish

2015 Aug. 10: A true definition of reality

2015 Aug. 2: Untitled

2015 July 15: Doing the best for my daughter

2015 July 31: Lihle Sokhela’s killer shows no remorse

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