Category Archives: Friendships

2013 May 12: Happy Mother’s Day is NOT for everyone

Posted on May 14, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Clear Peaceful Mind Today I went to the Randburg Kwai21Marathon. I’m not much of an athlete, definitely not a runner, jogger or walker. I just start a race of my own trotting behind everyone else and praying I make … Continue reading →

Posted in Articles, As we are, Before You, Comment, Community, Contributors, Crea(c)tive senses, Family, Friendships, Mother's Day, South Africa, We Care, We Still Can with/out Resources, Women; Voices; Writings; Education; Traditions; Struggles; Cultures | Tagged | 5 Comments

2013 April 3: Time keeps moving

Posted on April 29, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Siya Mcuta I keep having these flashes Flashes of her smile when I entered her ward I walked over to her Still I was not sure if it was her As her body was so small and frail in … Continue reading →

Posted in Allies, Another Approach Is Possible, Archived memories, Art Activism in South Africa, Articles, ARV's, Before You, Black Lesbians, Black Lesbians & Allies Against Hate Crimes, Black Lesbians and HIV/ AIDS in South Africa, Christie van Zyl, Community, Creating awareness, Death, Expression, Friendships, HiV/AIDS in South Africa, Hurt, Inner feelings, Lesbian Love Is Possible in South Africa, Life Stories, Networking, Nomawabo 'Wawa' Mahlungulu, Our lives in the picture, Records and histories, South Africa, Visual history | Tagged , | 2 Comments

2013 April 16: Not just a handsome butch lesbian

Posted on April 20, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

by Kopano Sibeko A smile that warms up the room and a walk that encourages a stare, Cordelia Mfazwe fondly known as ‘Collen’ is out-spoken. She greets me shyly as she plays with her cap to avoid eye contact. She … Continue reading →

Posted in Black Lesbians, Collaborations, Community, Community Mobilizing, Daveyton, Exposure, Expression, Friendships, Hope, Inkanyiso crew, Kopano Sibeko, Lack of Resources, Lesbian beauty contests, Networking, Organizations, Our lives in the picture, Questions & Answers, Readings, Records and histories, South Africa, Uthingo - The Rainbow, Visual history, Women; Voices; Writings; Education; Traditions; Struggles; Cultures, Zanele Muholi | Tagged | 22 Comments

2013 April 2: I was warm… I’m cold and hurt

Posted on April 14, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

24.01.2006 To Majola: I think you should understand what I wrote to Majola. I didn’t really want to hurt Majola but to make ‘us’ happy and free. Firstly, you know that lately I was never happy in this relationship. I’ve tried my … Continue reading →

Posted in 1st Soweto Pride, Activism, Allies, Before You, Complicated Lesbian Relationships, Diary, Difficult Love, Expression, Forum for the Empowerment of Women (FEW), Friendships, Hurt, Inner feelings, Life Stories, Townships, Visual history | Tagged | 8 Comments

2013 April 10: Another black lesbian activist has fallen

Posted on April 11, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

Report by Christie van Zyl As fellow South Africans especially members of African National Congress commemorates 20 years of Chris Hani’s brutal killing in Boksburg, Johannesburg (April 10, 2013). Freegender members, allies and the black lesbian community at large gathered … Continue reading →

Posted in 1978 - 2013, Abantu, Activism, Africa, Allies, Archived memories, Art Activism in South Africa, Articles, Before You, Black Lesbians, Black Lesbians & Allies Against Hate Crimes, Chris Hani, Christie van Zyl, Community, Community Mobilizing, Contributors, Creating awareness, Death, Expression, Family, FreeGender, Friendships, Funeka Soldaat, Funeral costs, Health, HIV/AIDS, Homosexuality, Khayelitsha township, Lack of Resources, Life Stories, Networking, Nomawabo 'Wawa' Mahlungulu, Organizations, Poverty, Readings, Records and histories, Relationships, Send-off, South Africa, Townships, Treatment Action Campaign (TAC), Tuberculosis (TB), Visual history, Women; Voices; Writings; Education; Traditions; Struggles; Cultures | Tagged | 19 Comments

2013 April 7: The game we played and lost

Posted on April 7, 2013 by inkanyiso2009

2012 June, Paris. FRANCE A friendly match  between Equipe Les Degommeuses a lesbian soccer team based in Paris, France and Thokozani Football Club from Umlazi, Durban. … for Foot for Love Photos by Laurence Prat http://www.laurenceprat.com About Equipe Les Dégommeuses and Thokozani … Continue reading →

Posted in Action; Referee, Activism, Africa, Black Lesbians, Collaborations, Connections, Contributors, Creating awareness, Exposure, Expression, Friendships, Networking, Records and histories, Women; Voices; Writings; Education; Traditions; Struggles; Cultures | Tagged , | 8 Comments