2013 Dec. 8: Well organised beauty pageant with less audience

2013 Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto pageant

 

by Lerato Dumse

 

The Miss Gay and Lesbian Soweto pageant is an idea born in the year 2000 and was turned into an annual event, until 2006. Then the strain of using money from their pockets, due to lack of funding and sponsorship, forced organisers to stop hosting the beauty pageant.

However they refused to give up, and in 2012 the beauty pageant was resuscitated. On Saturday, 7th of December 2013, Soweto Theatre hosted the 9th Miss Gay and Lesbian Soweto.

Although they have upped the standard, even changing venues, their efforts were in vain as the event failed to pull the crowd.

Mpho Maqalika performing at the 2013 Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto

Mpho Maqalika performing at the 2013 Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto

The event kicked off with a powerful poetry performance titled “unattainable soul” by Mpho “Poposki”. The poet also performed another poem titled “My complexion” which speaks of inner peace and not allowing other people’s expectations to lead us to self hatred. While Tumi Ndweni wowed the audience with a drag performance of Brenda Fassie’s Black president.

Tumi & L contestants_0238 

For their first appearance on stage, the contestants were wearing white, as a way of paying tribute to former President Nelson Mandela, as well as gays and lesbians who’ve been killed.

 

Labelz & Boiki, the best MCs in town...

Labelz & Boiki, the best MCs in town…

Duo, Labelz and Boiki kept the audience entertained as MCs. The pair kept changing from one elegant outfit to another, and Labelz’ humor left people in stitches.

Eva Mofokeng leading the girls in swimwear

Eva Mofokeng leading the girls in swimwear

The swimwear category followed the tributes and was energetic and beautifully choreographed. The showstopper has to be the formal wear category, which saw contestants pull out all the stops.

The contestants impressed the audience and judges, by strutting their stuff: high heels, makeup, hairstyles and figure hugging dresses. While the lesbians looked handsome in suits, waistcoats, ties and bowties.

Once the “beauty” contest was wrapped up, the top five was selected and asked questions as a way of testing their “brains”. This section is often controversial and entertaining, and this pageant was no different.

Some of the questions asked included:

  • When did Nelson Mandela die?
  • What is the meaning of lgbti (the contestant quizzed failed to answer)?
  • Who was the first black lesbian to come out in public and the media?
  • What does the lgbti flag represent?
  • What book are you currently reading?

This section resulted in some funny, smart, dull and unfortunately not so smart answers. After the second round of questions, it was time announce the top three.

Miss 2013 Gay Soweto:  Nhlanhla 'Fiona' Thabatha, 1st Princess, Dimpho Tsotetsi and 2nd Princes Miss Tee Menu

Miss 2013 Gay Soweto: Nhlanhla ‘Fiona’ Thabatha, 1st Princess, Dimpho Tsotetsi and 2nd Princes Miss Tee Menu

The winners are:

Gays
Queen: Nhlanhla aka “
Fiona” Thabatha
1st Princess: Dimpho Tsotetsi
2nd Princess: Miss Tee Menu

Vuvu in best red outfit impressed the audience and came the 1st Prince...

Vuvu in best red outfit impressed the audience and came the 2nd Prince…

Lesbians
King:
Paballo Tholwana
1st Prince: Nini Moagi
2nd Prince: Vuvu Makubetse

All in all, the event was well organized and the contestants seemed prepared, the most disappointing part is that there was less audience than expected. We hope that the 2014 pageant will have positive vibe considering that we’ll be celebrating South African 20 Years of Democracy.

Women flaunting their all at recent 2013 Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto contest... Centred is Dimpho Tsotetsi who became the 1st Princess

Women flaunting their all at recent 2013 Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto contest… Centred is Dimpho Tsotetsi who became the 1st Princess. Photos by Zanele Muholi (2013)

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2013 Dec. 4: Gauteng Provincial Legislature stakeholders meeting included LGBTI organisations

by Charmain Carrol

On the 21st of November 2013 Inkanyiso received an invitation by the Gauteng Provincial Legislature to attend a stakeholders meeting on the 27th of November 2013.

A few emails were sent back and forth with us confirming our attending as well as stating the number of participants that would be attending.  We wondered why all of a sudden we were part of the conversation but concluded it was election season and anything goes.

We entered the Johannesburg City Hall and we were ushered to the Committee room, where we had to register and get nametags.  They had made a few spelling errors on our surnames but we did not fuss much.

Deputy Chairperson, Mr Wally Valentine Mbatha started deliberations by stating why we had been invited to be part of the discussion.

He made the point that they were aware of the increase in violence against the LGBTI community, mentioning the stoning to death of Noxolo Nogwaza, a lesbian who in 2010 was raped and stoned to death because of her sexual orientation in Kwathema.  He highlighted an increase in violence towards women and children as well.

The chair went on to say “it is with utter disgust that these atrocities happen under our door steps and it is called ‘corrective rape.’ It was later found that the perpetrator known to Duduzile Zozo, they grew up together and he stayed not so far from her home.
He was present at the night vigil when the family mourned the death of their daughter, this is one person who was treated very badly by the community and later on was killed by that particular perpetrator.”

With that being said Mr Mbatha emphasized that the Gauteng Provincial Legislature wanted to build a sustainable collaboration with the LGBTI stakeholders, one that will have accountability to both sectors.

A result based outcome partnership.

He also spoke about the discrimination of the LGBTI in the private sector and how the legislature was involved in investigating these incidents.

Mbatha informed the LGBTI stakeholders on the progress made by researchers and content advisers on producing a non-exclusive documents. They are working hard to meet their deadline for the 3rd of December 2013.

There will be a follow up meeting to this date where the GPL will have all the content and information ready to present, based on the deliberations.

After watching the corporate video, Peter Skhosana, the Deputy Secretary of the provincial legislator welcomed questions and comments.  The deliberations began and the floor was opened and participants encouraged to give comments or asked questions by showing hands.

The first comment came from Lerato Dumse and it was about the medium of communication.  She highlighted the fact that English was the language being predominantly used deliberations.  She suggested that attendants be allowed to speak in their own native language as the country observes 11 official languages and that people would be able to articulate themselves better in their own language.

She also enquired on the absence of religious groups in this group and that it would have been of outmost importance to have them in this engagement as she represents the LGBTI sector.

Letebele asked if the GPL works hand in hand with the police.

The chair responded, conceding that people should speak in any language native to them so as to articulate themselves fully.

He also stated that they felt that it would be better for the GPL to meet with the stake holders first and understand the LGBTI issues first and then invite the religious groups to subsequent meetings, since this was a fact finding mission for the GPL.

The answer to the police is that yes they do have a working relationship with the police.

Other comments that came up were;

Lindi Zikhali from private sector said “ I hope this is not a gimmick for election purposes as we as the LGBTI community have been called to rooms and promised things and thereafter been left out. Zikhali also spoke of her appearance as she is a Butch lesbian who dresses in men’s suits and shoes and how she did not choose to be who she is.  She highlighted to the legislature to really consider correcting its wording on all their documents and spoken language as this is not a sexual preference for her.

·      Bontle Khalo said she understands that this is a learning curve for everyone, but we need to shy away from just using Lesbians and gays but use the LGBTI acronym as it includes everyone

·      Senzo said there was a need to include the disabled LGBTI people as they are not even invited in this meeting and they suffer double discrimination.

·       Peter spoke on addiction problems in the LGBTI community

·      Letebele, wanted to know if t there was going to be an LGBTI curriculum in the schools?

·      Charmain registered her skepticism of the fact finding mission and added that religious leaders in the LGBTI community like Rev Nokuthula Dhladhla should have been invited to be part of the dialogue, if a true picture was being painted.
Yes! I am a lesbian and Yes we are Christians too.

·      Tumelo would like visibility of MSM and WSM posters in clinics and have the people working in the clinics be trained to deal or assist the LGBTI community with prejudice and discrimination.

·      Ntsupe wanted to know who the logistics of the next meeting. She also suggested that the legislature hold an educational workshop around the terminology used for the LGBTI community.

These are some of the questions and comments that came out on the engagements and will be included in the next dialogue.
Mbatha clarified the questions and comments that were made, but emphasized that this is the beginning of a great partnership between the homosexuals and heterosexuals, and that this is not a ploy for votes.  He reiterated that lesbians and gays are humans too and they have the right to be in leadership.

We were provided with dinner and transportation.  It felt as a positive and signified way forward.

On 28th November 2013, we received our invitation to attend another sit down the 3rd of December 2013, 2013, before that meeting took place, on the 2nd of December 2013 we received an email postponing the meeting to the last week of January 2014.

We are still optimistic that the meeting will happen. We were also requested to mobilize as many as 300 others.

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2013 Oct. 15: She is my weakness

 

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2013 Feb. 8: “Let your voices be heard”

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2013 Dec. 9: Zozo’s alleged murderer to appear in court for the second time

by Lesego Tlhwale

As the 16 days of activism against gender-based violence draws to an end, the plight of Lesbian, Gay, bisexual, Transgender and Intersex (LGBTI) people in South Africa continues and the fight to eradicate hate crimes carries on for many grassroots LGBTI organisations in townships.

Tomorrow on 10th of December 2013, Ihawu a lesbian organization in Kathorus  and allies will be attending the second court hearing of the late Duduzile Zozo, a 26 year old black lesbian who was murdered on the 30th June 2013 in Thokoza township.

Ihawu has been following the Zozo case very closely since she was murdered. They carried out several protests to push for the diligent investigation of the murder of Zozo and other lesbians who have been killed in and around Thokoza.

Their effortless work did not go unnoticed as the police in Thokoza on 18th October 2013 arrested Lekgoa Lesley Motleleng (22) in connection with the murder.

The arrest happened after several suspects were arrested for questioning and released. However, Motleleng was detained after it was believed that he had an involvement in the murder of Zozo.

Following the arrest, Motleleng appeared in the Palm Ridge Magistrate court on 21st  October 2013 and has been in police custody since then as he declined to apply for bail.

According to reports, the suspect was one of the mourners who attended a night vigil the night before Zozo’s burial and offered comfort and condolences to the family.

Thuziwe Zozo, Duduzile’s mother told the media that, “she was shocked that the man accused of killing her daughter was someone they both knew, who lived near their home.”

“He’s like my neighbour,” said Zozo. “So how can it be he that did this? my neighbour. Like Dudu’s friend, Dudu’s brother. I wasn’t expecting that it was somebody here in my area.”

The shock experienced by the Zozo’s family is not as shocking for many families who have gone through the same ordeal. A lot of the Lesbians who have been victims of hate crimes were raped and murdered by people who they perceived brothers, uncles, friends, and neighbours.

One recent case is that of Millicent Gaika, a lesbian woman from Gugulethu who was brutally bartered and raped by Andile Ngcoza a man she knew from the community she lived in.

Ngcoza pulled Gaika into a shack on 2nd April 2010 and said he would show her she was a woman by impregnating her. He then tortured and raped her for five hours and left her to die.

“I thought he was going to kill me; he was like an animal,” Gaika said after the attack. “He kept saying: ‘I know you are a lesbian. You are not a man, you think you are, but I am going to show you, you are a woman. I am going to make you pregnant. I am going to kill you’.

After being on the run since 2011 Ngcoza was recaptured and sentenced to 22 years in jail for the attack of Gaika on 26th November 2013 at the Wynberg Magistrate’s Court.

Dudizile Zozo second court hearing will be held at the Palm Ridge Magistrate court and proceedings are as set to start at 8am.

 

 

 

 

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2013 July 13: Picturing Duduzile Zozo’s funeral

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2013 July 10: Chaotic memorial service for Duduzile

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2013 July 10: Photos from Duduzile Zozo’s memorial service

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2013 July 10: When brutally killed, Dudu was stripped every ounce of her dignity

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2013 July 3: Another brutal murder of a lesbian

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2013 July 3: Another fucked up case

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2013 Dec. 3: “Strategies to overcome Political Exclusion-Lessons from Southern Africa”


Remarks by

Amb. Mustaq Moorad

Regional Director, International IDEA, Africa Programme

at the Workshop on  “Strategies to overcome Political Exclusion-Lessons from Southern Africa”

Pretoria, South Africa

Ladies and Gentlemen,

Let me welcome you to Pretoria on behalf of International IDEA.
It is significant that we meet today as we celebrate the International Day for Peoples with Disabilities

Toni Morrison a famous American novelist said and I quote “I always looked upon the acts of racist exclusion, or insult, as pitiable, from the other person. I never absorbed that. I always thought that there was something deficient about such people,” end of quote.

Looking up the term social exclusion or marginalisation, I found that it is a concept used to characterise contemporary forms of social disadvantage and relegation to the fringe of society. Anyone who deviates in any perceived way from the norm of a population may become subject to coarse of subtle forms of social exclusion.

Ladies and gentlemen,

We are very happy to collaborate with our colleagues from our Democracy and Diversity Programme to organise this workshop on “Strategies to overcome Political Exclusion – Lessons from Southern Africa” because we realise that issues of diversity and social exclusion or inclusion are becoming quite prominent in this part of the continent and yet not much is being done to address them.

We also agreed to co-host because three of the countries invited to participate (Botswana, Namibia and South Africa) are amongst the six African Member States of International IDEA. As the saying goes, “charity begins at home” so we felt that as an intergovernmental organisation with a mandate to support democracy worldwide IDEA Member States should be at the forefront of the countries that address this lacunae in the consolidation of democracy in our respective countries. I think the next few days will show that we have a lot of catching up to do.

Although IDEA takes a non-prescriptive approach to its work, it does produce comparative knowledge resources which are used as global public goods to help address some of the challenges countries face.

International IDEA’s cross-cutting work on Democracy and Diversity aims to generate knowledge on inclusive participation, promoting effective diversity management policies and practices. Specifically, IDEA aims to identify and share good practice in managing the challenges confronting customary and democratic governance.

Since 2011 the Institute’s Democracy and Diversity Programme has been developing a knowledge base to use in improving the capacities of democratic and customary governance structures to manage and accommodate diversity based on both case studies and workshops.

The first of the workshops was held in Nepal in 2012 and included participants from Latin America, South East Asia and Africa sharing experiences of overcoming marginalisation based on ethnicity, gender, age, sexual orientation and religion.

This second workshop will build on the knowledge generated at that Workshop, but focus on the Southern African region, aiming to provide insightful examples of success in managing diversity and overcoming political exclusion based on gender, age or sexual orientation.

The workshop therefore seeks to provide a forum for practitioners to share examples of successful practice in facilitating gender equality and young peoples, lesbian, gay, bi-sexual, transsexual and intersexual (LGBTI) progress from exclusion to inclusion in democratic and customary governance.

The outcomes of the workshop will add to our body of knowledge on successful strategies to overcome political exclusion for marginalised groups and will also, hopefully, serve to build alliances between groups experiencing political exclusion from countries in this region and elsewhere.

IDEA also organised a Roundtable recently in The Hague on “Including Minorities and Marginalised Groups in Constitution Building Processes: Experiences, Challenges and lessons” which highlighted the fact that all states have marginalised groups but that it is possible to address the issue through constitutional guarantees.

Coming back to our workshop today and for fear of stating the obvious let me just highlight few facts:

  1. Of the five or six countries represented here only South Africa has constitutionally guaranteed provisions against discrimination of marginalised groups such as LGBTI although we know that they are continuously harassed.
  2. As we celebrated World Aids Day on 1 December we were reminded that many of our countries continue to discriminate against people living with HIV/AIDS especially those in same sex relationships.
  3. Apart from South Africa, women are still grossly underrepresented in positions of leadership in the political and economic field. A study we commissioned assessing manifestos of the main political parties in 34 African countries revealed that none of the manifestos addressed women’s empowerment and yet political parties are the gate keepers of the political process.
  4. Regarding youth, one would have expected that in a continent where youth comprise almost two thirds of the population there would be policies addressing youth unemployment.
  5. The growing income inequality gap is exacerbating.

At the international level there are opportunities to address some of the issues as part of the post 2015 Development Framework. However, it remains to be seen if there is the political will to come up with specific targets in this area.

We welcome the Report of the High Level Panel to the UN Secretary General on what needs to be done regarding inclusion and bringing in marginalised groups so that the post 2015 Development framework embodies development for all and thus no one is left behind.

It is encouraging that social inclusion is amongst the three pillars of the sustainable development agenda framework agreed at the Rio +20 Conference.

It is important that different identity groups do not get left behind. Society has to respect and include all identity groups. One cannot be satisfied with the quality of governance if marginalised groups are unable to participate.

The window of opportunity is slowly closing for non-governmental organisations and other civil society organisations to influence the work of the Open Working Group and of the UNGA as these negotiations are normally conducted at an inter-governmental level, the only way we can influence the process is by building coalitions with other groups.

As the UN SG says “in order to leave no one behind and bring everyone forward, actions are needed to promote inclusive societies where all people can contribute and participate in national and local governance.”

As we build these coalitions we also have to ensure that we own the debate by providing local remedies to some of our problems and in this way avoid being accused of being the lackeys of cultural imperialism.

Let me conclude by once again stating how important the issue of political exclusion and marginalisation is to democratic consolidation in our region and that our countries should ensure that no one is left behind. I hope that the next few days will provide the opportunity for you to come up with some strategies and also for building those coalitions.

Thank you.

Activists attending the IDEA workshop held in Pretoria. © Zanele Muholi (2013/12/05)

Activists attending the IDEA workshops on the 3-6 Dec. 2013, in Pretoria.
© Zanele Muholi (2013/12/05)

Participants live and work in various Southern African countries and they are from:

Rainbow Identity (Botswana)

LEGABIBO (Botswana)

Women and Law in Southern Africa (Lesotho)

National University of Lesotho (Lesotho)

Centre for the Development of People (Malawi)

Non-Governmental Organisation Gender Coordination Network (NGO GCN) (Malawi)

National Youth Council of Malawi (Malawi)

Malawi Human Rights Resource Centre (Malawi)

Civil Liberties Committee (Malawi)

Women Across Borders (Namibia)

Namibia Women’s Health Network (Namibia)

Pan African ILGA/PAI  (Namibia)

Zambia National Women’s Group (Zambia)

Operation Young Vote/OYV  (Zambia)

National Association of Youth Organisations/ NAYO (Zimbabwe)

Coalition of African Lesbians / CAL (South Africa)

180 Studios (Australia)

LaNYT Theatre (England)

Minority Rights Group International (United Kingdom)

Fortify Rights (Thailand)

IDEA (Sweden)

Inkanyiso (South Africa)

The workshops were facilitated by Amanda Harding, a consultant from England/France for IDEA.

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2013 Dec. 1: Words

 

Words aren’t easy to come out
Words have a deeper meaning than we think
Never back down when you tell it
I found myself with a trick of telling the words

Words have a deeper meaning than we think
I laugh because words aren’t so easy
I found myself witha trick of telling the words
So I told the truth no one wanted

I laugh because words aren’t so easy
I started to talk on how I see things
So I told the truth no one wanted
I’ve found tricks in telling the words
Never back down when you tell it
Words aren’t so easy to come out


by Theo Masalaza

© 2013

 

  

About the author

My name is Theopatra Masalaza was born and raised in Khayelitsha, Cape Town in a family of six siblings. As a young child I was taught to be an independent person in life by my mom. It grew up with me daily, and today I can say that I was my own parent. Today I am a grown woman that is a known Fine Artist and a Ceramicist in my community. I found myself loving journalism, so through all the skills and talents that I have, I became an activist – solving problems and telling stories of our daily lives. I don’t tell just any stories, but stories that make people twice, and stories that will have an impact.

... the first special publication by Freegender

… the first special publication by Freegender

Words features in Rivers of Life book which is a compilation of black lesbian stories and poems. Recently launched by Freegender on the 30th November 2013 in Cape Town.

Theopatra is one of the authors with Andiswa Any Gungxe, Aphiwe Mikana, Funeka Soldaat, Gcobisa Nogova, Pamella Mhlawuli, Sinoxolo Nqwenani, Siya Mcuta, Thozama Matabata, Velisa Jara, Vuyo Ndamase and Zandile Tose.

According to the statement provided by Freegender on introduction page, “The book shows untold stories of our lives in the face of overwhelming media representations of us as victims of hate crimes. Though this book reflects the reality of violence in our lives, we show that it does not define who we are.

Here we express the infinite richness and complexity of our lives because we are telling our own stories in our own words.”

To buy your copy or donate for future publications write to:
freegender2009@gmail.com

 

 

 

 

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2013 Dec. 3: A Queer African Reader book

2013 Dec. 3:   Queer African Reader book

Dear Friend,

If you are interested in reviewing QAR, kindly write to Sokari Ekine:
sokari@blacklooks.org
Thank you!

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2013 Dec. 3: Gorgeous people at the Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto 2013 semis


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Only 3 days to go before the winner of Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto 2013 is crowned.
Come out with your friends, family, colleagues, … and your neighbours who are not allergic to the Gaze/ LGBTIs
The finals will take place on:

2013 Nov. 21 Ms Gay & Lesbian Soweto logo logo

 

 

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2013 Nov. 25: We have always been here

 

So you stare at me with lust, disgust and all the isms you have

What! Say it and be brave enough to say it my face

I see you are not sure what to say now

Because I can look you in the eye and tell you

I have always been here.

No, you are not from here!

Where do you think I am from then?

Loving women and lesbians are made and bred here… motherfucker!

With mothers and fathers who love and cherish,

Brothers and sisters who adorn their love,

So you see we have always been here!

A generation over and years have gone we are still here.

They were here too and left us here, generations to come.

A whole generation is in the making, and like the ancestors before, another gendernation will live!

We live the rest of us as they did before us- here too.

So like I said we have always been here.

You look at me with some kind of an attitude!

I don’t have to explain to you who I am?

Because you don’t get to ask questions, you don’t want answers for!

So like I said we have always been here and belong.

Now where do you belong with such ass shit attitude?

You hate so bad, where are you from?

Queercide, and genocide on my brothers and sisters- you are pathetic!

Your hate speech and nasty attitude don’t belong for sure!

Because, like I said we were always here and you were not!

So I know you and you think you know me, now?

First erase that attitude and listen…

See my humanness, kindness, love,
tolerance towards even your ugly vibe towards me and my sisters, brothers and us all.

So then when you can hear me and be well then we can speak our love and where we going.

Because we have always been here and we are not going anywhere…

By Glenda Tambu Muzenda
© 2013-11-25

 

 

About the author

Glenda is a Researcher/Writer/Scholar whose focus is on Gender and Sexuality in Africa.

 

 

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2013 March 22: Gloom, glamour and graves

 

 

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2013 March 8:  Ndilele

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Jaw-dropping beauties at the Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto 2013 semi-finals

Jaw-dropping beauties from Miss Gay Lesbian Soweto 2013 semi-finals

Photo Album by Akhona Hailele & Zanele Muholi/ Inkanyiso

When:  8th Nov. 2013

Where:  Uncle Tom Hall, Soweto

Who:  MCee’d by Yaya & Lebo

Organized by Tumi, Penny, Letebele, Fino...

Finals to be held on the 7th Dec. 2013

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Beauty Kgomotso_0438

Beauty Nathi_0410 1

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Beauty Somizi_0450

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Beauty Nhlanhla_0461

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