2013 Nov. 11: Nocturne: Beheaded

...for Thapelo Makutle

 

All throat now…..already brighter than the stars.

I could hold you in my song. Sotto voce, tremble

against me: a breeze slips in, cools my blood

to garnet…..bed stained with stones, cold and finally

useless………..I Orpheo,…..I lyre. Down river, even damned

with hum, there is room for your cry in my mouth……Sweet,

sweet sotto voce, I sang your moan until…..the machete

swung…..then I kept singing. I eyeless,…..I eternal.

The guards hold blades to the sky and cut the dark open.

Do you hear me raining……….from the wound? My tongue

is a kingdom……You live there.

—Saeed Jones

 

About the author

Saeed Jones is the author of the chapbook When the Only Light is Fire (2011, Sibling Rivalry Press) and poetry collection Prelude To Bruise (Forthcoming 2014, Coffee House Press.)
His work has appeared in Best Gay Stories 2013, Guernica, Ebony Magazine, The Rumpus, Hayden’s Ferry Review and West Branch among other publications. He received his MFA in Creative Writing at Rutgers University – Newark. He is the recipient of fellowships from Cave Canem and Queer / Arts / Mentors.
He is the editor of BuzzFeed LGBT and lives in New York City.

 

 

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Gentle man’s brutal murder turns spotlight on intolerance

Thapelo’s service

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p6piy1aBJzQ

Thapelo’s funeral

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UGRhrQC3VgI

 

 

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2013 Nov. 7: Meet the Mabe’s, the loving couple

by Zandile Makhubu

They are no strangers to the media world. Kally and Sam Mabe are a legally married lesbian couple, who shot to fame when they got married and publicised their union on various magazines including DRUM and Real magazines as well as newspapers that graced their wedding ceremony to the world. The couple spoke to Charmain Carrol, the host of the CC Show which is a Production of Inkanyiso Media.
They discussed preparations and the road to their future together, which will be aired soon on Inkanyiso TV.

Sam & Kally. Photos by Xana Nyilenda (25.10.2013)

Sam & Kally.
Photos by Xana Nyilenda (25.10.2013)

Passionate about each other and family, they speak of their 6 year old son Kabo, who is their joy and happiness. Sam quickly adds, “No one can dispute that he is my son even though I am not his biological mother.”
Earlier this year, the Mabe family were marred by controversy regarding their son facing discrimination because he had said that he had two mothers at school.
“Our son had told us that at school they were talking about parents at home and he stood up and told the teacher he had two mothers and a father” Sam says.
The headmaster gave them an ultimatum to either break up or have the child dismissed from school because they had not disclosed their sexuality to the school.
They were faced with discrimination but most importantly, their son potentially being dismissed from school.
After numerous meetings with the school, Kabo was allowed to stay in the school, with no further incidents since.

Being in the spotlight has not changed them. Kally a successful IT Specialist and Sam a Mechanical Engineer says they are enjoying life together as any normal married couple would.
And they laugh off the suggestion that they are a picture perfect couple. “There is nothing perfect about us, we are also human and make mistakes,” Kally explains.

Their relationship hasn’t been all roses and violets. “I sat my family down and told them that I want to get married to the woman I love,” says Kally explaining that it wasn’t easy at all for her family.
“They met up with Sam, and blatantly told her to break up with me and to never see me again.” Although they faced difficulties before getting married, they never gave up on each other, and the challenges they faced brought them even closer together.
Their families have accepted their marriage, Kally proceeds to say, “All I wanted to do was the right thing and make an honest woman of my wife.”

p.84 Drum magazine of 7th June 2012 featured the best wedding of Kally & Sam. Original source: DRUM

p.84 Drum magazine of 7th June 2012 featured the best wedding of Kally & Sam.
Original source: DRUM

Seeing them together makes it clear how strong their love is and that nothing can stand in their way. Further proof is that even when their wedding bands were stolen, rather than re-purchasing and having to go through the process of the bands being blessed by their priest again, they opted to have their ring fingers tattooed, with the symbol of Infinity literally inked forever on their fingers.
Participating in a photo shoot for a portfolio of themselves orchestrated by Inkanyiso Productions, the couple spoke of how they wanted to do this a long time ago but couldn’t find the people and the right atmosphere to do it.

Despite the hurdles that the young couple had to overcome, it wasn’t long after we began photographing them, that we saw a different side of them, the witty sarcasm,fun loving and content side that we grew to envy. They shared their lives with us and their plans, Sam supported by her partner, is an aspiring singer under the alias “SAVALI” who already has records and has showcased some of them at the third annual LGBTI awards held at the State Theatre in Pretoria on the 26th of October 2013 as well as the third Pink Girl Fest in Magaliesberg on the 21 September 2013.

The Mabe’s have their lives to look forward to and the family they plan to build with their son, and hopefully expand the pack in the future.

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Young beautiful, intelligent, stylish and focused couple, Sam & Kally,  after the CC show…
Photos by Xana Nyilenda (25.10.2013)

 

 

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2013 Nov. 4: My Father’s Son


by S’bu Kheswa

Pointing at me “UBusi ka S’gara – this is Busi, S’gara’s daughter” said Sis Fiki, one of the aunties in my neighbourhood.
This is some thirty years ago, I don’t even know what they were talking about but at the time it didn’t matter as it was common of adults to talk about me.
All the attention was not about me, it was about my father.
I miss him. I think about him and even more lately.
When I am well dressed and smelling good I really wish he was around to witness my growth.
In my wildest dreams I can see him boasting to his friends about his oldest son. Other kids got toys and dolls and even school uniforms from their fathers. I got none of that but I know for sure my father loved me.

At any given day I would be playing with my friends in the dusty streets of Soweto and my father would be on his way to his friends or to a local soccer match or to gamble dice. He would just demand I go with him and I would gladly join him.
My family would worry so much as I would be gone for hours on end.
They always feared that he would take me for good.
At Sju’s shebeen Sis Margaret told my father S’gara uchama into enhle – S’gara you ejaculate a nice thing.
I seem to think that this compliment was about my good looks.
Given my generosity, I am very much willing to share this compliment with him.

It is sometimes disappointing that many people don’t experience me as someone from Soweto. I am from Zola, eMzambia, eZola emabhodini  kwamshay’zafe!
Zola was one of the notorious sections of Soweto.
My father was one of the guys who ensured Zola’s bad reputation.
Different generations from Zola have witnessed all kinds of crimes that you can imagine, be it car hijackings, jackrolling, house breaks and robbery.

It was a very sad Saturday afternoon to me as the community was ululating watching the police arresting S’gara for robbing people of their possessions.
This is my father we are talking about.
Couldn’t the police pardon him?
I wished people could understand that when this guy is out of prison no one could touch me.
Instead guys and tsotsis would greet me and tell one another “this is S’gara’s kid”.
As a child I wished to have my parents in the same household.
In retrospect, I think it was good that they ended it when I was conceived.

The 90s were an important era in the lives of many South Africans.
Kwaito emerged in this era and this music genre affirmed many young people from the townships.
Kwaito also produced many music artists and some of them are from my township, among them are Mdu, Mandoza, Mzambiya and Zola 7.
I would like to believe that the emergence of all these stars contributed positively towards changing the reputation of Zola. I also want to believe that over the years Zola produced other kinds of stars who are not necessarily in the public eye.

One of these days I will openly share about the crimes that were committed to me as a child, later as a teenager and as an adult.
I can’t believe I have protected these criminals for so long.
Sies! Magwala ndini!
You take advantage of vulnerable.
Is this what your masculinity is about?
These bastards have infested our homes, our streets, our schools and our jobs.

I’ve had to live with this paradox for the longest time in my life.
Look!
Being a female-bodied boy was not going to exempt me from men’s cruelty.
Believe me when I say it is very hard to identify with your abuser.

I am my father’s son. I aspire to be an honourable man, a man who is not a threat to anyone.  I dream to be a man that my mom, my sister, my wife, my daughter and friends will be proud of. I also hope to be a man that younger man can look up to.

Please do me a favour. When you bump into SisFiki please correct her “uSibusiso ka S’gara – This is Sibusiso, S’gara’s son

 

 

 

 

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2013 Oct. 18: Transition is in your hands

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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2013 Nov. 4: Confronting the Eiffel Tower with the lens

2013 Nov. 4:   Confronting the Eiffel Tower with the lens

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Eiffel Tower in Paris is the tourists’ attraction.
For most visitors who come to the City of Love this structure is a must to see.
For the love of photography we captured these from Val’s apartment in Belleville.
The photos were taken in one day few hours apart by Themba Vilakazi and Zanele Muholi.
Not photoshopped, the colors were like that…

Camera used: Canon 6D with 200 mm lens and teleconverter.

More to come…

L-R: Themba Vilakazi & Zanele Muholi in Paris (4th Nov. 2013) by Zanele Muholi with RC6 remote control.

L-R: Themba Vilakazi & Zanele Muholi in Paris (4th Nov. 2013)
by Zanele Muholi with RC6 remote control.

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2013 Nov. 6: Moving On To Only Stay Behind

 

 

There are amazing particles in life that we miss because
we look too hard for all the wrongs of our past

We compare
two things from two different worlds
Because we travel new roads with old shoes
We are bound to think we’ve stepped on the same stones
before holding on has become our biggest fear
Trying
Just trying one more time is a big impossibility
Because we’ve been told too many times that giving up,
letting go and moving on
Is the only way to stay sane

We move too quickly
To only stay behind
Who told us we should leave when we want to stay?

What happened to following your heart?
Is it because of the pains of your past
that you buried with all your dreams
that you were told they too hard reach?

When did we become so immune to pain
We protect our hearts from hurting yet pain is a part of life

How do we expect to live without pain nor disappointments?

I want to get real
Tell the truth
and admit to wanting more than I utter

What really happened to
“I believe in Love”
I will stay in love
I will give my all
I will pray hard
I will hold on
I will keep moving
and never will I compare oil with water

Who changed our hearts?
Why did we allow them
to inflict so much pain and forget
to take the lessons in it all

Moving in circles
Going round and round
Looking for a problem
A tiny mistake
Just to start a fight

And feel alive after saying a few words
you’ll later regret and ask to be forgiven

When do we really own up to our mistakes
and accept defeat

In which year did you change?
Do you still remember who you were?
before all the scars that are covered with make up?
Who is this reflection you see on the mirror?
Do you recognize anything about it?
When did you start looking like the rest?
Sounding like all the other retards
Walking in the same direction as the rest?

When did YOU die only to wake up
to a duplicate of yourself
How come we rejoice in fake celebrations that
have separated us from our spirituality?

Can you still draw a line if I give you a ruler and a pen?

Will you be able to move with the times
but carry YOURSELF in it?

But when did carrying yourself become so hard?
Who told you
You need to be something else other than who you are?

What went wrong in love?
In self love?
How come you don’t see
your own reflection in the water anymore?

© Maureen Velile Majola
05/11/2013

 

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2013 Oct. 20: Deafened by my own ignorance

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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2013 Nov. 4: From Market Photo Workshop to Bremen University

 

 

 

by Fikile Mazambani

 

Zanele Muholi’s name has become synonymous with her visual activism which she calls “Visual/ Art activism – an artistic approach to hate crimes” such that one can almost overlook that she is a master at how she arrives at that visual.
On 28th of October 2013, Zanele became the first South African to be appointed as an independent video and photography Honorary Professor at the University of the Arts/Hochschule für Künste Bremen in Germany.

The artist was officially welcomed to her position by Bremen’s Minister of Education and Science, Prof. Dr. Eva Quante-Brandt who presented her with her appointment letter.
The occasion was even more special because the university was also marking their 25th anniversary.
This was an inspirational time for fellow South African photographer and filmmaker, Themba Vilakazi, who was wearing many hats on that day.

As an African photographer himself, Vilakazi felt encouraged and in awe of Muholi’s accolade.  “I have never heard of anyone in South Africa who has been bestowed the honour of a professorship. I have heard of honorary degrees but this is just on another level.
Now the next stop is the Order of Ikhamanga!
They have to consider the body of work”
, he says passionately, challenging the South African government to honour one of their own as they mark 20 Years of Democracy in 2014.

Professor of Media Aesthetics, Prof. Dr Claudia Reiche believes Muholi has earned her stripes and deserves the title. “I think that Muholi is a wonderful artist, rightfully renowned in the art world as well as in the LGBT activists’ contexts.”
Muholi will be resuming her lectures on December 3, 2013 and will be “free to teach the students of digital media and others from the faculty of Art and Design during some block seminars, in a way she prefers” Dr Reiche confirmed. “I hope Zanele Muholi’s personal and artistic courage will inspire students with the courage to pursue their basic questions in
Life and Art.”

Prof. Zanele Muholi after the reception. © Themba Vilakazi (28/10/2013)

 

The Prince Clause Award laurette’s persistence has paid off.  After graduating from Market Photography Workshop in Johannesburg, she dove right into her work and started making a statement with her camera.
Faces and Phases is one of her most visible projects to date.
She knew that there were no positive images portraying lesbians and that if she, as a member of that community, did not break some doors down, no one else would.
Where there was once a void, there is now an over flowing archive.

Vilakazi says “Photography used to be a rich man’s indulgence but it has shifted, but then again it has not changed for everyone because many black families do not have family pictures.  I do not have pictures of my great grandfather and grandfather.
Faces and Phases changed that.  It is an archive that will say these faces existed at this particular phase.  It allowed those often relegated to the shadows to come to the forefront.”

Muholi’s works are a strong show of her advocating for human rights of the LGBTI community.  She says of her work “no matter how you feel about the LGBTI community, one cannot deny our existence.  We need to say we are here and work hard and be consistent” she says. She created an archive of ‘family’ portraits that future generations can pull from.

Whether you accept the LGBT persons or not, you must acknowledge that these are people who actually exist.  If they were your family, you would not portray them in a compromising way.
This is why I had to take a stand and do something.

On how she felt about this honour, she got quiet in her answer as she spoke of it being a bittersweet moment for her.
She wished her late mother would have been there to celebrate the fruits of her labour – literally.  “This energy that creates comes from her womb really. I miss my mom.”

She quickly changes gear as she becomes commanding again, emphasising that this is an attainable goal for anyone who reaches for it.
“I want any young person to know that this is possible.  We just have to work harder be consistent, focused and relevant in what we do.
We also need collaborations.  I am made by the people and I serve the people.
I am always humbled by their kindness and the way they have embraced my ideas.” 

Muholi has come full circle, starting off at the Market Workshop in Johannesburg driven by a frustration of not being able to see herself portrayed in any positive media, to perfecting her skill when she got her Master Fine Arts: Documentary Media degree
at Ryerson University, right down to now becoming the disseminator of knowledge.
She feels humbled and says this is bigger than her.
We are doing this for the collective, for our grandchildren tomorrow.”

In 2013 alone, Muholi has surpassed even her own standards, winning the Fine Prize for an emerging artist at the 2013 Carnegie International, in Pittsburgh, Pennsylvania.
She is being honoured with the prestigious Prince Claus Award, to be presented in Amsterdam in December 2013.
She won the Index on Censorship – Freedom of Expression art award in London in March, and the Mbokodo Award for Creative Photography in August.

On the 2nd of November 2013, Muholi presented her new work at Sharp Sharp exhibition, La Gaite Lyrique in Paris.

 

 

 

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La sud-africaine Zanele Muholi, une photographe révoltée

 

 

 

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2013 Nov. 3: Everything so close yet so far apart

by Xana Nyilenda

2013/09/20:
I shut my eyes for what felt like a brief moment in passing. I woke up to realize I had passed out on the bed for a good three hours. It sounds like enough resting time and usually is the amount of sleep I have on a regular basis.
Only it was a different kind of fatigue one I couldn’t explain, I was completely finished only I couldn’t sleep. I sluggishly awoke to Zanele who was already out of bed full of energy editing and posting a few articles on the Inkanyiso website.
We were still pretty much operating on South African time, there’s a nine-hour time difference. Which meant while we were wide-awake, Los Angeles city was sleeping.

As Zanele and I were busy conversing and planning our itinerary for the day.
I decided to join the wagon and start writing too. There is nothing like putting a few thoughts and feelings on a piece of paper to pass the time.
A result was a blog about leaving South Africa and my experiences here in LA as a first time visitor. As the new day dawned, the first appearance of light in the sky before sunrise appeared as the sun emerged from beyond the hills.
I anxiously stared out the window and watched the city come alive, albeit three maybe five people walking on the street, a cyclist or runner.

You should know that Little Tokyo District is as the name sounds a small Japanese community within the confines of the city. There are a lot of other similar parts of town inhabited by just a certain ethnic group or cultural group of people that will be something that is glaringly obvious to you as you explore the city.

The division of race groups all around which is masked behind reasons such as the preservation of culture and sticking together as minority groups.
In spite of this I got a chance to experience a world where all cultures merged harmoniously to form a collective.  A group of young intelligent minds seeking to change the world of which you will later read about later.

Having been too tired to even eat the previous evening, Zanele and myself set out downstairs to the hotel restaurant for a good hearty, healthy Japanese breakfast. I tell you I’m a big fan of Japanese culture and lifestyle so for me this was pretty big for me. We enjoyed our breakfast buffet at a side bar overlooking a window allowing us a view of the city. I then noticed something really odd for me, there were hardly or no people on the street.
At first I thought that maybe it was because no one kicks it into gear early in the morning around these parts, but unlike South Africans there’s a huge driving culture here.

If you’ve ever been to Johannesburg, South Africa you’ll understand to what it means to live in a big city where with everything so close yet so far apart from each other. On a larger scale add some good weather with a dollop of theatre and you have Los Angeles.
It is with that observation that I began noticing that everything we had seen being portrayed about this city in particular as in actuality completely different in real life. With breakfast done and our stomachs filled to our satisfaction and a bit of typing done, nature called. I requested to use the restroom and with no surprise, little old lady almost messed her pants, refusing to use the toilet whilst I was still in there.
Something that I experience constantly back home; being mistaken for guy, I digress.
It was now time to get ready for the rest of what seemed was going to be an eventful day.

L-R: Carrie Mae Weems; Lyle Ashton Harris, John Akomfrah, Nana Adusei-Poku, Fussan; Robert; Zanele Muholi; Ingrid Mwangi and Xana Nyilenda at Pitzer College in LA.

L-R: Carrie Mae Weems; Lyle Ashton Harris, John Akomfrah, Nana Adusei-Poku, Füsun Türetken; Robert Hutter; Zanele Muholi; Ingrid Mwangi and Xana Nyilenda at Pitzer College in LA.

With all the featured artists and guests namely; Lyle Ashton Harris, New York-based artist and Associate Professor at New York university (Global), Nana Adusei-Poku, Applied Research Professor in Cultural Diversity at Rotterdam University/Willem de Kooning Academy & Piet Zwart Institute and Lecturer in Media Arts at the University of the Arts, Zurich.
Zanele Muholi, a Visual Activist/ Photographer from Umlazi, Durban, also founder of Inkanyiso converged in the lobby to meet up with our driver who would then take us out in to Claremont where Pitzer College a member of the Claremont Colleges is situated.

After a forty-five minute drive on the highway and getting to know each other. We passed every imaginable fast food restaurant, food chain and American franchise we’ve all seen on our tellies but it still didn’t quite look right.
We finally arrived at the college where we then met all of the other participants and organizers of the Symposium/Exhibition. Carrie Mae Weems an American Artist and Photographer, Ruti Talmor, Assistant Professor of Media Studies at Pitzer College, programmer and curator.
Renee Mussai a Curator and Head of Archive at Autograph ABP a Photographic Arts agency at Rivington Place, London.

Shortly after the meet and greet session over a cup of coffee and something to eat (I had a smoothie called “Naked”-which tastes as good as sounds and the best brownie I’ve ever had in my life).
Everyone headed for the colleges’ George C.S. Benson Auditorium where a Keynote Lecture was given by Carrie Mae Weems, sharing some of her work past experiences within her career. Reflecting on some of the major themes in her thought-provoking work was also sharing wise words which she so eloquently expressed.
As the day progressed the opening of the exhibition “Glyphs: Acts of Inscription” was held at the Nichols Gallery in Pitzer College – this exhibition will run from
19 September – 5 December 2013, -where it was open to all visitors and students alike.
To name a few artworks exhibited that stood out were Mwangi Hutter a collaborative who resides in Ludwigshafen and Berlin, Germany and in Nairobi, Kenya.
Presenting an installation Aesthetic of Uprising II, (2011of a large photo print depicting a muddy, almost naked woman running on all fours over dry land- which looks almost like Southern Africa where it merges with a pool of black fluid /paint with pieces of materiel that have text on them.
Mickalene Thomas’ “Le dejeuner sur I’herbe: trois femmes noire” (2010) which is a tongue and cheek interpretation of Edouard Manet’s “The Luncheon on the Grass” (Le déjeuner sur l’herbe), 1863.
Zanele Muholi’s “Faces and Phases” (2006-present) a series of black and white portraits depicting the black lesbian in South Africa and John Akomfrah’s “Peripeteia” 2012 a video installation which drew it’s inspiration from drawings done by Albrecht Durer in the sixteenth century.

After the proceedings as per exhibition protocol food and wine was served at a reception to allow mingling of guests and students. We then got a chance to watch John Akomfrah’s “Peripetia” simply put it was beautiful. My attention was drawn to the next section of the video installation part of the exhibition. This one was one that sparked a whole lot of interest from onlookers as they crowded around the piece just to see what was going on. Much like the other curious looking faces I watched gazing into the screen, that at that moment I had no view of. I got up to have a glance at what seemed to be an amazing sight judging from the dumbfounded looks on their faces.
As I turned the corner into the booth I was forced to turn away from the multitude of people crowded around the screen, which made it impossible for me to even sneak a peek.

I then decided to leave the room, and lucky for me a whole lot of others followed suit as they were experiencing the same problem I was at the time. Obviously this was an opportunity for me to turn back before I even exited the building.

In doing so I walked in on a woman attentively gawking at the screen engrossed in what she was seeing. She looked like she could be in her mid-forties, tall slim figure in a floral dress, curly hair and eyes that could pierce your soul.
She turned to look at me, deliberately turning her attention away from the screen and stared into my eyes, passing me her set of headphones even though I already picked up my own. Not wanting to be rude I graciously accepted them without breaking eye contact and thanked her.

I then put my headphones on and turned to the screen and watched South African artists Andrew Putter’s “Secretly I will Love You” video that combine video and photography. What followed conjured up a supernatural encounter and was one of the most bizarre things I’ve ever seen. I had one of the most eerie but intellectually stimulating experiences with two perfect strangers with the second seemingly have appeared out of nowhere. I really would’ve loved to stay to see what would transpire at that moment but everyone was extremely tired from travelling.
So we then headed for our hotel for dinner and some rest.

To be continued…

Part IV will be about the Difficult Love screening and Q&A at Los Angeles Gay & Lesbian Center (LAGLC)

Part IV will be about the Difficult Love screening and Q&A at Los Angeles Gay & Lesbian Center (LAGLC)


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2013 Oct. 4: Cramps were killing me 


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2013 Sept. 23: Leaving Los Angeles


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2013 Sept. 29: A fierce episode


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Xana Nyilenda’s birthday

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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2013 Nov. 2: The best performance of Athi Patra Ruga in Paris

Performing The Future white woman of Azania.
Procession-deambulation of d’Athi Patra Ruga.

Video taken with iPhone 4 by Valerie Thomas in Paris.

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2013 Oct. 31: CC in conversation with Rene’

In this Episode 1: CC chats with Rene about her work, art and writing…

 

 

 

 

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2013 Oct. 24: Black, Proud & Out and Deaf

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2013 Oct. 26: Sandton Pride photos

2013 Oct. 26:   Sandton Pride photos

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sandton jozi pride akho

santon pride akho 26 0ct 2013

Photos by Akhona Hailele (26.10.203)

 

About the photographer

Akhona Hailele was born on the 6th of November 1989 in Queenstown,
Eastern Cape and later moved to King Williams Town.
Hailele then moved to Johannesburg in 2011 to further her studies.
She is currently studying Motor Mechanics at Central Johanneburg College.
Hailele joined Inkanyiso early this year (2013) and has since showed a great interest in Photography and has been documenting for the organisation.

 

 

 

 

 

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2013 Sept. 30: Intimate kisses at Soweto Pride 2013

Location:  Credo Mutwa Park, Soweto. Johannesburg, South Africa. Photos by Zandile Makhubu & Zanele Muholi © 2013/09/28

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